While manifesting an upgrade to first class is one thing, manifesting love is a whole other ball game.
Before begging the universe to make Brad Pitt fall in love with you, you’ll need to dig deep into your emotions in order to figure out what it is you actually want.
It takes time, understanding, and patience, but if you follow the right outlook on life, you may just be surprised.
What Is Manifestation?
You may have seen the ‘M’ word plastered all over your social media, but you might be wondering what it actually is.
Manifestation involves aligning your thoughts, beliefs, and emotions with certain steps in order to reach specific goals (You might also want to check out How To Manifest Writing Down?). Therefore, it is intentionally creating your reality through certain thoughts, beliefs, and actions.
Many believe that we are constantly manifesting, whether we like it or not. What you put out into the universe, you get back, so understanding this may give you some control over what comes your way!
Manifestation isn’t easy, but this article is going to provide you with some more information on it, and some steps you can take in order to manifest someone into your life
How Does Manifesting Someone Work?
Whether you want to manifest a new friendship group or a certain kind of partner, there are many ways to do this. However, one thing to understand is that if it doesn’t align with what is meant for both of you, it will not happen.
Manifesting someone, as opposed to something, is a little different. You can’t manifest someone against their free will. This means if you’re manifesting for your childhood crush to fall in love with you, but it isn’t happening, then it’s not meant to happen.
You must not force things. When you manifest, you are letting the universe know what it is that you want. However, this means that things, or people you thought you wanted, may not actually be for you.
You can manifest an ex coming back into your life, or a new romantic partner, but if it is not in the highest good for the both of you, it will not happen.
How To Manifest Someone (Romantic Love)
This article will now give you some steps you can follow in order to manifest a partner. These steps can also be utilized if you want to strengthen the relationship you are currently in.
Step 1: Know What You Want
The first thing you need to do is understand what it is you truly want in a partner. Do not worry about how you will find them at this point, that is up to the universe. In this first step, you merely need to understand what it is you are looking for.
Step 2: Visualization
Here is when you need to imagine what kind of life you will have together. Is it vacationing in Europe? Cozy evenings by the fire? Whatever it is, picture it in your mind!
Visualize yourself in this relationship, and allow yourself to feel excited about it. What this does is it increases the desire in your subconscious mind.
Step 3: Imagine How You’ll Feel With Them
You’ll then need to understand the feelings you want to experience around this person. If you’re manifesting a business partner, then you’ll want to feel energized, creative, and supported.
However, when manifesting a romantic relationship, these feelings may center around feeling cared for, secure, joyful, and intimate.
Step 4: Embody It
When it comes to embodying it, you need to act as you would if you were already with this dream person.
You must believe that you are worthy of true love because we manifest what we subconsciously believe about ourselves and what we deserve when it comes to love.
Step 5: Clear Your Past, Emotionally
Before welcoming a partner into your life, you must be emotionally ready for them. This means clearing any emotional cobwebs from your past from any previous trauma or heartbreak.
This is where patience comes in, as depending on the level of trauma, it may take time and a lot of work to get through. However, we can guarantee that it will be worth it in the long run.
Step 6: Take Action
Once the above steps have been completed, this person may present themselves to you. However, you may also find that several people with the qualities you have manifested present themselves to you.
Here is where you need to take the opportunity to say ‘yes’ to those whose qualities align with what you have manifested, and say ‘no’ to those who don’t.
If you say ‘yes’ to those who don’t match what you truly want, you are letting the universe know that this is the kind of person you’ll accept and you will therefore continue to experience people like them.
Step 7: Ditch The Expectations And Timeline
You may imagine yourself with a 6-foot football coach by the time you’re 30, but the universe may have other plans for you.
Your person may present themselves much earlier or later than you expected, and they may look and act completely different from what you thought.
As long as you are clear on what exactly it is you want, you must trust the universe to bring it to you.
Step 8: Surrender
Following on from the previous point, the last step is when you must let go of all expectations and understand that the love that has presented itself to you, may not be exactly the way you expected.
Prepare yourself for some surprises, they won’t all be bad!
Final Thoughts
In order to manifest someone into your life, you must have faith in the universe. As long as you are clear on what it is you are looking for, the universe will listen.
Manifestation is a way of reaching your goals by aligning your beliefs and wants with certain actions. Try it with an open mind, you never know what will come your way!
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